Smiling without saying a word is a kind of wisdom; Being silent in pain is a form of optimism

Update：3/16/2025 2:40:30 PM

The Tang Dynasty poet Meng Jiao once said, "In spring, I am proud of my horse's hooves, and in one day I see all the flowers of Chang'an,

How disappointing.

In fact, in this society where identity and balance are imbalanced, your joy is likely to become a show off in the eyes of others as soon as it is spoken out.

This mentality is problematic for both parties, with boasting stemming from shortcomings and jealousy stemming from imbalances. It is not difficult to understand why there are always one or two people in social media who show off their affection or travel food

Someone who loves to sour you.

Being silent in pain is a form of optimism

Russell said: Scars are the best gift life can give you. The preciousness of this unique gift lies in taking you one step further towards maturity.

The protagonist Fugui in Yu Hua's novel "To Live" had too many misfortunes in his life: he was addicted to gambling, owed debts, sold his ancestral home, died of anger at his father due to the decline of his family, his wife and daughter ran away from home, and was among the dead in the war

The People's Liberation Army rescued him and escaped the oppression of the landlords. His family members left one after another... In the end, he was accompanied by an old cow and memories of the past under the sunshine.

For the ability to bear hardships, perhaps only such people can be portrayed in novels. In reality, few people can achieve such an open-minded attitude. Perhaps a stock market crash or a romantic setback can lead to

Someone is standing on the edge of death and has no desire to love the world.

Happiness is the same, misfortune is different. It is not difficult to understand that many people can only bear the helplessness of knowing the warmth and coldness of drinking water alone when they are in a painful situation, but it is precisely the kind of person who achieves pain and

Without hesitation, only those who understand that life is not lived for anything outside of it can truly realize optimism and openness.

As the saying goes, the earth is low as the sea, and the people are low as kings. In life, one should still enjoy oneself to the fullest, but this joy is just a smile on the face, and it's boring to talk about it when meeting people.